As of Press time, this was the last update on the ongoing brouhaha of Jobert Sucaldito and Xian Lim Incident. Jobert apologizes to Xian.
“I would like to apologize to Xian Lim and after this sana ay dumami ang followers ko kaya follow niyo na ako mga Jobertnatics!”
But what really happened before. I got the whole Jobert’s statement/article and let us read
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I had one of the most memorable experiences sa aking career as a journalist and radio/tv host just tonight – memorable in the sense na nakalusot ang pambabastos sa akin ng male star na si Xian Lim. Halos mapaiyak ako sa galit while doing my job on-air not because hindi ko siya kaya pero nakaramdam ako ng sobrang pagkainsulto mula sa isang taong wala pa namang napatunayan sa industriyang ito. While I did our MISMO program sa DZMM, my co-anchor Papa Ahwel Paz was assigned to cover the fundraising concert ng ABS-CBN sa Araneta Coliseum. Ibinabato sa akin ni Papa Ahwel sa studio ang kaganapan sa Araneta via Skype – once in a while ay nagka-chance kami na makainterbyu ng ilang artists LIVE habang ako’y nagproprograma sa studio. We had nice conversations with Kian Cipriano, Kaye Abad, Dawn Zulueta, KC Concepcion and Robi Domingo.
Until nagka-chance si Papa Ahwel na mahila itong si Xian Lim na katatapos lang yata ng kanilang number sa show for a short interview. We started well sa interbyuhang iyon and I even congratulated him sa natanggap nila ni Kim Chiu ng special award sa ASAP18 last Sunday. He acknowledged it naman and shared some nice points. I then followed up a cute question na pampakilig lang dahil hindi niya kasama si Kim sa production number nila – “hindi mo ba makakasama si Kim ngayong gabi?” obviously referring to the show. Short of saying kung meron ba silang duet or a number together. He asked kung ano raw ulit ang tanong ko and Papa Ahwel echoed my question – “hindi raw ba kayo magsasama ni Kim tonight?” And this hambog na male starlet na ito ay biglang nagtaray ng “ano ba namang tanong iyan” sabay tanggal ng earphone niya and walked away.
I felt slighted – nainsulto akong bigla sa tinuran ng malamyang aktor-aktoran na ito. Yes, I admit – nagalit talaga ako and I won’t let this just pass by nang ganoon-ganoon na lang. I said on air that I will definitely give him a piece of my mind. The nerve of this trying hard male chauvinist na ito na mang-insulto ng isang taong wala namang sinabi o ginawang masama sa kaniya. I don’t understand why this gayish-mammal gave me a full strike when all I had was the best intention to promote him and his screen partner. Ginago ako ng hinayupak na ito. After more than 30 years of being in this business, ngayon lang ako nabastos ng isang sipuning aktor-aktoran. Nakaramdam akong bigla ng awa sa aming dalawa ni Papa Ahwel Paz – a man of dignity and maingat sa kaniyang trabaho. Hindi ba marunong mag-demarcate ang lampang male starlet na ito between a serious question and a pa-cute one? I don’t think Papa Ahwel and me deserve this – kung gusto niya ng gaguhan, call kami. Kung gusto niya ng suntukan, call din ako. Matalo man ako ayos lang dahil BAKLA ako pero pag natalo ko siya, lalabas na mas BAKLA siya.
After the show, I received a barrage of text messages from friends and even regular listeners and viewers ng DZMM Teleradyo – all hated him. merong isang madreng nagsabing he was truly RUDE and must be taught his GMRC which he might missed in school. One says na napakabastos niya and another one saying na napaka-mal-edukado ng dating niya.
Yes, I’m angry at this Xian Lim. After the show, I went to have coffee sa Zirkoh. Gusto kong magpalipas ng sama ng loob. Gusto kong magpahupa ng galit until I received a text message from his handler Gidget of Star Magic. She forwarded to me xXan’s message – “sorry kanina na-offend kita. I meant no disrespect. Magulo at maingay sa paligid. Pasensiya na“.
That easy, xian? You mean, kaya ka nakapagtaray ng “ano ba namang tanong iyan” and walked away dahil magulo at maingay sa paligid mo. Gusto mong maniwala kaming hindi mo narinig ang tanong ko – pero nakasagot ka ng “ano ba namang tanong iyan” sabay walk out. A very gayish gesture – di ko lang alam kung nakataas din ang kilay mo when you walked away because I didn’t see your goddamn face then after. I may forgive you but I don’t think this soon. Not at your convenience honey! I will compose myself first – titimplahin ko muna ang sarili ko kung hanggang saan ang naging tama nito sa akin. I will definitely forgive you one day – I’m sure about that but you have to learn your lessons first. Huwag masyadong mayabang Xian because you’re nothing yet. You’re still just a piece of shit for me dahil wala ka pang napatunayan to act that way. Wala ka pang licence to harm others – especially the feelings of seniors like us. Kahit pa halimbawang sikat na sikat ka na, wala ka pa ring karapatang magyabang at mambastos ng kapwa. Gago rin ako, xian. Baka worse pa than what you think. I know that we could live on this damn earth without each other – pero meron lang akong sinusunod na paninindigan sa buhay ko – “hindi ako nanghihingi ng respeto kanino man (because respect is gained) pero wala akong binibigyan ng karapatang bastusin ako!” Over my dead body Xian Lim or whoever you are.
This is just the beginning of a war Xian Lim. There’s more in my heart na gusto ko lang iparamdam sa iyo. Let’s schedule kung kailan kita patatawarin pero kailangang maramdaman mo muna ang sakit ng ginawa mong pang-iinsulto sa amin ni Papa Ahwel at sa istasyong pinaglilingkuran namin. Kung sa palagay mo’y handa ka nang humarap, just advise us. And better be good, man!
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I think it is very important to hear the whole side of Xian Lim in this issue. It is too good to be true but having both sides will make this more reliable. The story is one sided so I wont stop from here.
grabe naman si jobert kung makareact parang binasted sya ni xian eh I admit na mali yung sinabi ni Xian pero naman maging professional ka naman grabe kang makasabi ng masasamang bagay kay Xian feeling mo naman sikat na sikat ka! HOY BAKLA LAOS KA NA HANGGANG RADYO KA NALANG KAYA ANG DAMI MONG KAAWAY HINDI MO MASARA YUNG BIBIG MO HOY MAGRETIRE KA NALANG… FEELING MO NAMAN NAKAKASTRESS…you’re a disgrace to the gay community
Ano ba yan Xian Lim super dirty minded.. ewwww.. haha natawa ako dito: “Matalo man ako ayos lang dahil BAKLA ako pero pag natalo ko siya, lalabas na mas BAKLA siya.”
I still like Xian Lim..bakla ka tlaga, if you seem insulted, you are not doing either the right thing from my own opinion. Kung nabastos ka man, you have to ask yourself, why? whats wrong with you? what’s wrong with the questions? What matter with this question: hindi raw ba kayo magsasama ni Kim tonight?
If regardless the show, what kind of question is that? probably you have to elaborate your question next time for more understanding of the person you ask… Xian LIm, even if he is not sikat but he is a good person. He just also got rude to your question. Do you get it? good luck!
I totally agree. We can’t blame you Jobert if you got offended and if this is how you react, neither we can’t blame Xian too. Dirty minded na kung dirty minded, wag magmalinis as if you don’t know showbiz! Xian was just being real with how he reacted. You should’ve had asked the right questions. Where’s your head? And with how you reacted as if wala ka pang natarayan sa buong buhay mo. Maybe there’s a reason why it happened to you. Now you know how it feels.
I always follow u…..thanks for the info….
This is just a case of someone who’s ego was badly hurt. It’s difficult to move on especially if you think you’re someone. If I was jobert, di ko nalang papatulan. Kasi if totoong wala namang kwenta si Xian sa kanya, then he should just let it go after the guy gave his apologies. Napakawalang kwenta naman na dibdibin ng husta ang nangyari as if it was something personal. Wag nang palakihin. Sir Jobert, you’d be more respected if you took the high way, rather than ride on the big wave of one’s false ego. Wala namang ka kwenta-kwenta yun. mASyado lang mataas ang tingin mo sa sarili mo. A litte humility wont hurt. Especially ikaw yung masnakakatanda. Hindi porket mas matanda eh dapat ikaw ang magmasmalaki. Kaya wala nang mga respeto ang mga kabataan sa mga masnakakatatanda, kasi masyadong pinapahalagahan ang pride. As adults and more tenured, one must have the humble and graceful attitude. It is not a given na pagbiastos ka eh personal na agad. what if bastos lang talga yung tao, tapos ikaw naman nagpa-epekto. Iakw ang talo. Grace under pressure Jobert. We all need that as we age. No one is better than anyone. Age doesn’t define respect or tolerance. But the greater person is the one who has the humility to take the better road. So it still doesn’t matter if you are the president of the Philippines, if you cannot take the better road to righteousness. It’s false humility to say that nagpapakatotoo ka lang. In short what you are trying to tell people is that you are not worthy to be respected at all kasi masmasahol ka pa sa binatilyong walang alam pa sa mundo. Since you are the better person, then you should be the one to show the better attitude. Otherwise, you have no right to even call the shots in here and make it seem like you are someone. That’s just your ego talking. No offense Jobert, but I think this is not news worthy of you. Okay lang sana if ang ganda ng nagawa mo para mapublish. Do we need to hear your rants as being offended? Just being a journalkist doesn’t mean may rights kana to be more important over other people. Grow up girl, the kid just got to you. Ikaw ang talo. Please, I really respect your tenureship, but if you will act this way, then you will lose people’s respect. Friends, of course they will be there. But in the eyes of the masses, you are just an old lady tripping on her own shit. So be intelligent and suck it up. Show them you are better than this and can rise above it. That you are a person who can be humble and respected, not because of your post or achievement in society, but because of your character and wisdom. I love you Jobert….so walang personal, just saying my piece to help you come out of this a better person. If you think I’m just a nobody, then a nobody has more sense than you. Di na importante sino ako. importante you act well as you are a public figure. How you act is a means for people to learn to either learn how to handle crisis the right way or to react to it in a bad way. As you are a media persona, and hold influence over our nation, you should be careful of how you handle things. Same as you would tell Xian. But since ikaw ang masnakatatanda, you have a bigger role to play in teaching the nation. Kasi public figure ka that’s why.
indeed!!..
Naiintindihan ko jobert Sucaldito yes bilang nakatatanda respeto ang kailangan importante un bilang Tao
Mr. Jobert Sucaldito is being OA. Yes. Overreacting over a little misunderstanding. “This is just the beginning of a war Xian Lim.” If I were Xian, i’d choose my battles. And this one, doesn’t even count.
Yah.. OA much.. halata nmn di nagets ni Xian ang tanong nla at mejo iba ang dating sa knya.. cguro parang bastos ang pgkakaintindi nya sa tanong kya gnun nging reaction nya.. grabe ang reaksyon ni Jobert, ipapahiya agad c Xiam dahil lng sa simpleng misunderstanding..
TRUE. hindi lang na gets ni Xian ang question. MY PAGKA GREEN KASE ANG TANUNG. KAYA GANUN NALANG ANG NAISAGOT. oa naman si laos hahahaha ..
tama OA ., ni jobert .,., dapat ang tanong nya” kung mkakasama mo ba si kim mamaya sa prod?” ,.., dapat ganun , hindi ung “makakasama mo ba si kim mamaya?” db .,., double meaning .,., kea misunderstanding lang .,., OA kung magreact nagsori ndin nmn c xian ., bkit may war war war pang nalalalaman ., hayy naku .,.,
tama OA ., ni jobert .,., dapat ang tanong nya” kung mkakasama mo ba si kim mamaya sa prod?” ,.., dapat ganun , hindi ung “makakasama mo ba si kim mamaya?” db .,., double meaning .,., kea misunderstanding lang .,., OA kung magreact nagsori ndin nmn c xian ., bkit may war war war pang nalalalaman ., hayy naku .,.,
Correct! Nagpapaimportante si bakla gusto rin mapag-usapan kaya nki-ride-on sa popularity. Aminin mas popular si Xian sayo bakla natangal ka nga sa The Buzz before at wala kang hit na movie! Super OA parang anong malaking issue ginawa ni Xian..meron right ung tao kung ayaw nya sagutin ang tanong na feeling nya di magandang pakingan. Magpahinga kana Jobert sa showbiz…it’s time na cguro.
How about the cucumber scandal! Hahaha
Joebert Sucaldito is being so subjective as ajournalist. U dont broadcast ur personal grief to catch the attention of ur readers and u dont have the right to destroy xian just like that. You should have beeb very specific with ur question like wala ba kaungprod together ni kim? Wag daanin sa kbaklaang tanong. madami ng nging kaso sau bec of irresponsible journalism kya warn urself not xian lim
Your question wasnt rude at all but when the other host echoed the question”hindi raw ba kayo magsasama ni kim tonight?” It was a bit rude because it sounded that you are referring to a sexual comment which was rude-in defence for xian… Your comment however was not rude at all because you asked a simple question:) i hope this is over kasi xian is a nice boy and will only be feisty if provoked… Sana po the other host phrased his question better
Jobert question to Xian Lim is “makakasama” while Papa Ahwel Paz “magsasama” which is not nice question, and the place is crowded and very noisy. Hindi maganda ang dating so naka pag salita is Xian Lim, “ano ba tanong yan…. Cause they are potraying a wholesome image… they are protecting their image too…. so better use a nice word…. not “magsasama”
hindi kasi kumpleto yung question or mali lang talaga ang pagkakasabi ni Mr. Robert Sucaldito at nung kasama niya. Kaya lumabas na parang double meaning ang question niya. Kaya nga siguro nagalit si Xian. At saka diba si Xian Lim lang din naman ang ininvite nila? It means hindi na kailangan tanungin kung makakasama ba ni Xian si Kim sa interview nila on-air. kaya next time, think before you talk.. Para kasi sa akin, misunderstanding yn..
A stupid question that doesn’t deserve an answer… Damn right that Xian what a question indeed a very stupid one! Jobert it’s not your most embarrassing experience and a memorable one, surely the cucumber incident is worst than that, agree?! Xian is an intelligent guy for such stupid question… and Jobert your tactics using Xian to be talked about is such a cheap tactics in showbizness …Shame on you!!!
I agree to you deyy.. he’s just over reacting.. nasagi kasi pride niya at ayaw mag patalo. why don’t he just let it go nuh??.. ano naman kaya gagawin niya?.. sisirain nya career ni Xian? Didn’t he even thought na baka na misinterpret lang ni Xian Lim yung tanong niya.. gaya nga ng sabi niya is ”Magulo at Maingay” oh my! Itong ginagawa niyang revenge or whatever this is, shows that he’s not being professional. I feel sorry para sa kanilang dalawa dahil nabastos sila but then, kailangan bang umabot pa sa ganito?.. 😉 PEACE!
IT was a case of misunderstanding. Xian might have interpreted question ‘hindi mo ba makakasama si Kim ngayong gabi?” ?’ as ‘will they be together, after the show, alone doing you know what’ at which case Xian has full right to be angry and walk out.
If jobert worded his question better, such as ‘may duet ba kayo sa show mamaya?’ or ‘Magsasama ba kayo onstage tonight?’ then the misunderstanding could have been prevented.
Mali na kung Mali si Xian pero nag sorry naman. Anong pinagmamayabang ng Joebert na toh? Artista ba siya? For me he did not even leave a mark in the industry kahit 30 years na siya as what he said. Sino ba siya? Kahit yung alleged scandal niya na sinugod siya sa hospita coz may something na gulay ata na naiwan sa pwet niya Di ko pinansin kasi la naman diyang kwenta at hindi siya worth remembering and someone na dapat kahangaan. Kaya Joebert wag kang magmayabang at maging mataas. Regardless kung totoo si Xian sa pag hingi niya ng tawad wala kang karapatan para mag inarte ng ganyan. Diyos nga nakaapagpatawad kaw pa. And again Sino ka ba sa lipunan? Tsk3. FYI not a fan of Xian pero nakakairita ang mga taong walang kwenta gaya mo. Just saying. This is my opinion. Respeto
hay naku bakla,itigil mo na yan,nd kaba napagbigyan?kaya mo cya binibira naun?nd ka nya kawalan.
Mali ka nmn Jobert eh kaya hindi kayo nagkaintindihan tingnan mo tanong mo sakanya “hindi mo ba makakasama si Kim ngayong gabi?” dapat tinanong mo hindi mo ba kasama si Kim sa concert nyo ngayong gabi? para naman magandang pakinggan pagod n nga yung tao at katatapos lang ng number nya tpos ganun ang itatanung mo syempre iba maiisip nun noh. Next time try to elaborate more kung may tanong ka. I’m not a fan of Xian or Kim but I just want to say my comment in here
I think Xian misunderstood the question..
“hindi mo ba makakasama si Kim ngayong gabi?” , “hindi raw ba kayo magsasama ni Kim tonight?”
It was not in his assumption that Jobert was actually referring to the show. Xian thought of another thing.. if you know what I mean..
“ano ba namang tanong iyan”
See? I’m not a Xian fan but just being open minded. Maybe he acted in a disrespectful way because he thought he was being disrespected. He can either answer yes or no but he didn’t.
Just my opinion. 🙂
Like seriously? This fag has been overly reacting. Teka 30years ka na sa industry? Eh sino ka nga ulit? Anyhow im not into anyones side but hearing this side (pa lang) OMG.
Jobert Sucaldito na naman?? sino pa ba namang maniniwala na may credibility ka pa? gumagawa ka lang ba talaga ng ingay para mapag usapan ka?? sa dami ng nakaalitan mo sa local showbiz, hindi ka pa ba nagsasawang pumatol sa maliliit na issue??natapakan kamo yung pagkatao mo .. eh yung ibang tinira at siniraan mo hindi ba natapakan pagkatao nila??kung talagang matapang ka, bakit hindi ka humanap ng kahit paano ay papatol sayo?? Kay “universal Sweet john Lapus nga, hindi ka umubra eh?? Eh diba NGANGA ka lang dun (kasi di mo in-expect na somehow, lalabanan ka niya) ngayon naman, you’re accusing Xian lim to be like you?(faggot) hinding hindi siya ganun for sure.. O.A . ka lang talaga dahil LAOS ka na! dun ka naman kasi talaga bagay sa Sta. Ana race track eh?talunang kabayo!!!!
from the question “hindi mo ba makakasama si Kim ngayong gabi?”, it already has double meaning. You cannot expect a person to think of what you are thinking. The question Mr Sucaldito asked is not clear. He didnt say that he was asking if he had a number with his reel life partner. Ofcourse there can be a reaction like that. You may say that he might be green minded or whatever, but as a journalist you should state questions clear. You shoul ask straight questions like “wala ba kayong number ni Kim chiu ngayong gabi?” so I think the journalist must think of what made Xian Lim react that way not what he feels after the reaction. both sides offended each other.
i think this was just an a misunderstanding….kasi sa dating ng TANONG MO PO mister JOBERT, medyo nakaka offend sa side ni XIAN…SIGURO NGA IBA LANG PO ANG DATING KAI XIAN SA TANONG NYO NA, DI MO BA MAKAKSAMA SI KIM TONIGHT..sana KINAKLARO MO YUNG TANONG MO ..DAPAT DINUGTUNGAN MO NG CONCERT TONIGHT…tapos agad agad…binabastos ka nya?..susme…..dyan ka nmn magaling MIster J..ang manira ng mga actresses and actors…..sa ugali kasi ni xian na medyo seryoso…dapat din pipiliin mo ang uri ng tanong mo..BWESET KA..
Hindi kaya namisinterpret ni Kian yung tanong. He might thought they were asking if the couple will do something intimate that night. Kahit ako medyo naconfuse sa tanong. Bakit hindi kasi icomplete yung question para laging malinaw.
Your just too obvious jobert. Seeking for attention, Im not really into xian lim but the way you react on the scenario was totally bullshit, obviously your question was so two sided, it could be interpreted as rude. Calling him gay as him you’ve known him. You’re just a fucking hellshit reporter and do you think that your that high? I’ll spit you on the face faggot! As i was reading your article it made me think why the hell are still in the industry.
May mga tanong na intention is to ridicule…simple with malicious intent. Unfortunately for him he questioned an intelligent person… kaya tinalikuran siya. If that’s his way of increasing his listeners, too bad wrong technique… more of deduction than addition.
Sino ba yung Jobert na yan, sikat ba yan? may credibility ba? Over over-acting naman, WAR? agad? pa-cute na tanong? cute ba sya? E gago pala sya e. Fundraising event yun, tapos tatanungin mo ng pampakilig, ikaw Jobert ang showbiz, magpakatao ka nga, wag mong panindigan na bakla ka at ganyan ang ugali mo, kala mo kung sino ka na gusto mo ikaw ang bida at laging tama. Sayang lang ang bayad sayo ng ABS sa airing mo, mas gusto ko Papa Ahwel kasi neutral sya di katulad mo bastos! Sana palitan ka na lang ni Papa Ahwel mas may credibility ang show kung sya ang maging host na lang, nakakatuwa pa di nakakapanira ng gabi.
Just because you work longer than the other, doesn’t mean you can call him names etc.
Give him the benefit of the doubt. He said “ANO BA NAMANG TANONG YAN”? Obviously, that means to say he heard it differently. And what he have heard might have been offensive for him.
Your question is not offensive. Therefore, you both had a big miscommunication.
Tigil-tigilan niyo yang “BAGUHAN KA PALANG” type of rebuttals! ang tanga pakinggan eh.
So pag bago pa lang, hindi na pwede magkamali? at pag luma ka na, kahit anong pagkakamali mo ok lang dahil may karapatan ka na?
WAG NAMAN GANON. 🙂
how stupidly are you to make such a question like that… matagal kna palang journalist nor radio host… pero you don’t know how to use right word… how clumsy are you to be with what you are right now…
Xian Lim action was just to protect Kim..
And you Insulted the Actor…
And One more thing if you Are a Really an Educated One…
You Wouldn’t Use Such a Careless Word…
For Me ,,,, I Rather Set A Side my Dignity Just to Insult you And Detailed the Stupidity that you did…
Tanga… KakaHighBlood..
Papa jobert mag parebond nalang kayo ng hair kumukulit na eh para may magawa lang kayo hindi yung naninira kayo ng tao .
sobrang OA nyo po talaga .. at tsaka, yung question nyo ?? maypagka green kaya yung question nyo .. naku , bakla ka nga .. salamat na lagn at hindi lahat ng bakla ganyan dahil kung ganun, naku .. ewan ko lang .. syempre si kua Xian parang bastos naman talaga ang dating nung question eh at parang iniisip nya si Kim nun kaya yun naging sagot nya .. at para seu beki, SUPER OA mo po
Nagsorry na nga ayaw mo pang tanggapin, ano gusto mo mag public apology or lumuhod sya sayo..come on..OA ka masyado..maingay ang background tapos ask mo sya kung “hindi raw ba kayo ‘magsasama’ ni Kim tonight?” wrong question for me , dapat ganito”hindi mo ba kasama si kim tonight, kaya siguru ganon sagot sayo ni Xian.hahaha. Ganun lang nangyari kung ano ano na pinagtatatalak mo dyan.LOL
putang inang Jobert Sucaldito mag iingay na nman .. walang mniniwala sayu .. panira ka talaga ang dapat sayu tanggalin sa trabahu ,, bwisssit ..
Hmmm… i dont like how sucaldito wrote this. Hambog na hambog tong article na to.
Grabbeeee kang Jobert bakla ka! Ikinasikat mo naba to? hahaha Poor you! Actually mas bastos pa ang bibig mo kesa sa kanya! Ang OA mo! Dapat kase tinanong mo kung – my prod. ba sila ni kim together! Eh sabe mo kase makakasama mo ba si kim ngayung gabe, xempre baka sa pagod dahil katatapos lang ng prod nila baka akala nia iba ung tanung mu, baka ang dating kay xian ” kung makakasama ba nya si kim after ng
show! Pede mo naman kase tanungin ng maayus kase baka umiwas lang si xian sa topic! Kung ako si Xian Lim hindi kita papatulan, wala ka naman eh! Isang feelingerong baklussh na my nakakaimbyernang fuckmumuka! Maka goddamn ka eh GoddamnFrog ka naman!
napakalawak din naman kasi ng tanong…
kung mahusay ka talaga sa pagiinterview dapat kumpletuhin at magtanong ng maayos…
hindi mo naman pwede sabihin lang na “magsasama ba kayo ni Kim ngayong gabi?”
kasi for KIAN iba pumasok sa isip nya lalo na kakatapos pa lang nya mag perform at nahila lang sya for interview…
pwede naman itanong na lang sana “magsasama ba kayo ni Kim ngayong gabi to perform on stage?” yun ang professional na tanong dapat galing sa isang profesional na reporter.
Ikaw jobert kabayo tumahimik ka. Wala ka ng ginawa kung hindi makipag away. Wala ng maniniwala sayo kabayo ka. Hindi ka papatulan ni Xian nu.
Baka na miss understood lang ni Zian ang tanong, better rephrase it na lang sana as this; “Hindi mo ba makakasama si Kim dyan sa show ngayong gabi?”. Eh di sana nag grin ang mind ni Zian.
Hey,basahin mo yang sinulat mo at intindihin mo .i’m not really a big fan of xian pero OA ka masyado .kc kung ako ung nsa part ni xian bka sinampal kita ayusin mo kc yang tanong mo klaruhin mo ..kc prng pambabastos.ngtanong ba nman na di ba cla mgsasama ni kim ngaung gabi …bkit dimo kya kompletuhin kung ano ang ibig sabihin mo jan just like di ba kau mgddate or di ba kau mgkasama sa isang palabas..u know lovers cla at mga bata pa be sensitive nman wag ung side mo lng iniintindi mo intindihin mo ung side ng taong tinanungan mo ng ganyang klasenv tanong mg isip ka din pg may time.gusto mo ata sumikat kys nghananap ka ng mpg uusapan kaliit na bagay cno kaba?di kc kira kilala sikat kba?
tama. i’m also not a fan. pero you have to consider din yung words na ginamit mo. . you might not intended that to be understood that way pero kahit sino (admit it) maiisip din yun the other way around.
Well, it is almost Christmas, instead of making a fuss over this kind of things, why don’t we just prepare our hearts for the coming celebration of Christ’s birth and forgive each other? I may understand why Mr. Jobert feels like that if Xian didn’t even apologize. There are far more important things than that.
uu nga .. agree ako seu @Mabgatako .. tsaka cguro kasi gusto lang nya ulit magpapansin .. dba ?? wew
ang OA lng jobert… onti nlng bbingo ka rin sa abs….
Baka naman double meaning ang tanong mo..kaya na offend si xian 😀
sobra ka naman jobert kung mkapagsalita kay xian kasi ba naman ang tanong kala ko ba matagal ka na sa industriya ayosin kasi ang choice of word syempre galing sa bakla ang tanong pwedeng intendihin yon as kalaswaan na tanong kaya hinay hinay ka lang kung magreact WAGAS talo pa ang binasted!
Jobert salot sa showbiz pangit n bobo pa.gago ulol..yabang mo mukha ka nmang imburnal.yuck
oa yan c cnu yan ?jobert na yan napaka oa!! obviously sya ngmumukang walang pinagaralan kc ung mga sinasabi nia kay xian lim nde tama!! may pangalan ung tao nde dPAT tinatawag ng kng anu2 na sipunin o baguhan artista etc… nakakatawa lng xa para xang nabroken hearted hahaha… dka sikat para magpaka oa!!!
funny journalist, “maingay and magulo ehh” can’t you see it, you are not his priority that time, and you can never deny the possibility that it could be a double meaning question, sorry for you, he understood it the way you dont want to. PLUS malay naten, on your mind tama yung pagkakasagot ni Xian, and for the sake of coming clean, you took the angelic side. attention seeker? i did not even know you exist until this issue came out, and now siya pa walang napatunayan? nagsorry yung tao, he proved he is still a good man even with his imperfection. professionally speaking, what you did was no difference to the Korina S. issue. It’s just that Korina still acted professionaly, and you did not. watchout, if you think this is the rise of your career, congrats, but this could be the death of your morality. you got the fame you wanted, and your attitude sucks. if i were Xian, id rather have a fight over a stolen ballpen than this nonsense.
Napakawalang kwentang issue.
sounded uneducated as well mr sucaldito.
ang gwapo ni gerald
ang gwapo ni xian pa kiss na man
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kasi naman JOBERT ang question mo double meaning… if u want a good answer ask a good question.. sabi nga di ba “kung gusto kang marespeto matuto ka ding rumespeto”you dont have any right to ask for any respect because RESPECT should be earned and it should not be IMPOSED!! GET IT!??
hay naku jobert/ ang kunti nang sinabi ni Xian. ANg dami mo nag sinabi. u feel very insulted you are so immature and you are the one whos unprofessional. bakit sino ka ba at hindi ka pwedeng tarayan? and that question? it means many things/ sana ang tinanong mo e magkakasama ba kayo ni Kim tonight sa show? ung ganun ba? mukha ka kasing bastos kaya binastos ka din/
ausin kac ang way ng pag tanung para ma iwasan ang misunderstanding…journalist ka..dapat alam mo ung tamang way ng pag tanung…kaya nga nia pinaulit mo para eh clear mo ung question mo…kung anu ang ibig sabihin ng quetion mo..be professional naman jobert…trabaho mo yan…natural lang na mang yayari yan sa iyo…
Your not getting our sympathy Mr. Jobert Sucaldito. If your professional enough you shouldnt be saying these things on air or to any public media. We understand you’re hurt but that doesnt mean you need to act and say those things to Xian. You just proved what you really are.
Pasensya si jobert dahil pinalaki si xian ng may respeto sa babae most esp.if he cares sa taong involved.Napaka tricky ng tanong nya,it will go either way,ang cheap at ang bakla ng tanong nya.Gusto lang pala nya malaman kung may number silang dalawa,,iba yung pagkakatanong nya.Ang arte nya para bang ang ganda ng record nya.Nakahanap lang sya ng katapat nya.Yung mga insulting words na pinagsasabi nya kay Xian,hihintayin ko na lang yung time na boomerang sa kanya lahat and I might send him a congratulatory bouquet coz he deserves it.Advice kay jobert nakakasukato oooopppsss sucaldito pala(short for nakakasukang maldito) tingin tingin sya kaliwat kanan pag naglalakad baka masalubong nya karma or taas baba ang tingin baka mabagsakan sya.
Simple lang gustong mapag-usapan ng madlang people si Jobert kaya gamit gamit din pag may time ang peg nya!
Double meaning ang question mo kay Xian kaya hindi maganda sa pandinig! Over reacted ka naman JS talagang bakla ka nga it seems you’re un educated! Si Xian pa ang sasabihan mo na walang napatunayan… hello JS hindi ka lang pala bulag at bastos! Ang fan base ni Xian are globally!
Sus.. Inis inis ka lang jobert sucaldito kasi gusto mung umingay ang program mu. Napaka babaw naman ng kung kailan mu pa sya mapapatawad ee sino kaba? Diyos kaba? Feeling mu napaka popular mu? Hello laos kanang baklang masama na ugali ee daig pa ang walang pinagaralan sa mga lumalabas sa bigbig.. Basura! Ginagamit ang mga sikat na tao mapagusapan lang sya.. XD .. Poorness baklang ukluban manahimik ka nalang sa lungga mo..
Bakit mo pa pahahabain ang setwasyon kung ng sorry nmn ang isang tao sayo,uo nagkamali cya,nasaktan ka..Or baka type mo lang c Papa Xian,kaya ngpapansin ka..hindi man cia subrang sikat,anu ngayon sayo,ikaw ba Manager nia para problemahin yun.!!!!!! 😛
Trabaho mo yan,natural lang na mangyayari yan sa iyo.Ei kung ayaw mo pala mabastos,mg retired ka nalang dyan.. 🙂
Hindi naman dapat humaba pa ng ganito ang issue na ito, kung hindi lang over reaction at OA naman si Jobert. Napakasasakit naman ang mga binabato mong mga salita sa tao, ikaw na nga ang nagsabi na baguhan lang siya dapat bang ganito ang gawin sa isang taong baguhan lang sa showbiz. Di ba dapat nga pagsabihan mo siya ng maayos at itama kung ano man ang mali niya at hindi ung maghahamon ka pa ng suntukan at sasabihan ng bakla siya. Hindi ka lang kasi pinapatulan ni Xian kaya nanggagalaiti ka sa galit. Sa ginagawa mong iyan ay lalo mo lang pinapasikat si Xian, dahil tama lang na hindi ka patulan ni Xian para hindi na humaba pa ang issue. Marami ng napatunayan si Xian, hindi dahil lang kay Kim. Super talented si Xian, marami siyang alam in terms of instruments & music. Super dami ya ding endorsements, hosting, mall shows, concert abroad at lahat ng teleseryes at movie nila together ni Kim ay talagang nagiging mega blockbuster dahil sa tandem nilang 2. Dahil super dami ng nagmamahal sa kanilang 2, dito sa Pinas at lalo na sa ibang bansa. Dahil sa team up nila ni Xian ay ngayon lang nagkaroon ng movie si Kim na umabot ng 100million for 3 weeks lang pera pa ung kinita ng movie nila abroad. Kaya hindi mo puwedeng sabihin na dahil lang kay Kim ay sumikat si Xian, team up sila at super nagustuhan sila ng madlang people dahil sa kilig chemistry nilang 2 on and off screen. Kung ang Diyos nga ay nagpapatawad sa lahat ng ating mga kasalanan sa kanya tayo pa kaya. Pare pareho tayong hindi perfecto at may mga kasiraan sa buhay kaya wag tayong mag malinis na parang Diyos ka na hindi nagkakamali. Sabi mo nga 30yrs. ka na sa industry hanggang ngayon hindi mo pa din alam ang tamang gawin sa mga taong nakagawa sa iyo ng mali kung meron man. Hindi mo pa alam na ang nagpapakumbaba ang siyang minamahal ng Diyos.
Kung hindi magandang example si Xian sa mga kabataan hindi ka kukunin ng mga bigating mga company para endorse mo ang produkto nila. Super dami ng mga endorsements ni Xian at talagang mga bibigating mga company pa, tulad na lang ng SM, BDO, Mint, McDonalds, Myra, Avon, Globe, Gibi Shoes, Cloudfone at Techno Marine. Model at endorser siya, kaya hindi lang din basta basta si Xian, marami na siyang napatunayan sa sarili ya. Kaya sana bago tayo humusga sa kapwa natin ay tignan muna natin ang sarili natin kung tayo ba ay perfecto.
Nauunawaan ko si Xian, dahil sa sobrang pagmamahal at respeto ya kay Kim, feel ya nababastos na si Kimmy. Sabi nga ya masyadong maingay at magulo sa venue kaya hindi ya naintindihan masyado ang tanong, feeling ya kasi nababastos na si Kim. Para kasi kay Xian, di bale na siya ang siraan, masira at sa kanya na magalit ang lahat, wala lang manakit at manira kay Kimmy. Di ba noong namatay nga ang Momi ni Kim isa si Xian sa mga nagtanggol sa kanya sa mga tanong naninira kay Kimmy. Sa ginawa ni Xian na ito lalo lang namin siyang minahal at hinangaan dahil talagang pinatutunayan ya na gentleman siya at pinakita ya kung gaano ya talaga kamahal at nirerespeto si Kimmy. We Love you Xian…..
One of KIMXI’S diehard fan is Mr. Rico Hizon, Int’l News Anchor of BBC World News. Gustong gusto ya at mahal na mahal ya sila Xian at Kim pag nandidito siya sa Pinas ay lagi silang bumibisita ng family ya sa mga location shooting ng KIMXI at kung wala man katulad nitong November lang ay nagkita sila ni Xian at nag dinner sila kasama ang family ni Mr. Rico Hizon. Kaya kung hindi maganda ang ugali ni Xian, magugustuhan ba siya ng isang ginagalang at bigating Int’l News Anchor na tulad ni Mr. Rico Hizon.
LOL. wag kang magalit Mr. Sucaldito and friends. kasi po OBVIOUSLY, hindi niya na-gets yung tanong niyo and mali pa pagkakaintindi sa tanong. RIGHT? so wag din po kayong mag JUDGE and OVER ACT. hindi naman po niya siguro tinapakan ang pagkatao niyo dba po? YES. Hindi pa naman talaga si Xian super duper sikat pero sabi nyo nga “30 years na kayo sa business” hindi ba dapat mas malawak yung isip niyo kung bakit ganun yung reaction/sinabi sainyo ni Xian?
Haynako joebert.. Move on k nlng.. Yeah u need respect but u have to undrstand xian lim dt tym.. Kttpos lng ng performance then bgla m iintrvwhn? E malamang npagod tapos gnun p tanong mo. I specific m kc wag ng bitinin pra maayos. Gsto m p ng gulo eh. Upakan kya kta?! Haha. Magbati nlng kyo xmas na eh
ANG OA lang tlga ng reaction ni jobert!!! an dami nyang sinabi eh isang mababaw na word lng nmn ang nasabi ni xian, your just making the scene more complicated mr. Jobert! Lets admit may mali si Xian peru anu ba namang mali lang yun d nmn kailangan palakihin, anu bayad ang oa tlga d maka get over sa ka oahan ni jobert. Im not a fan of Xian peru mas favor ako sa kanya dito
kabobohan kong umasta si jobert… di man lang nya inisip na baka pagod lang si xian lim kaya yun ang nasagot nya…. di nman big issue to…. pinalaki lang naman nya…..
Say n mali nga ung tanong, but.. Xian could have just clarified the question if di nya na gets… He cud have just ask, wat do u mean with “mgkksama”? Or whatever.. Di un bgla nlng xa ngwalk-out.. Point is, nkkabastos nga nmn yun bgla k nlng pagw-walk-out-an..
Next time kasi kung mag-aapologize Xian.. aus-ausin nmn.. pinahiya mo lang naman hindi si jobert eh..pati yung program nila at estasyon.. on-aired daw sila eh.. imagine 30 years in the showbiz industry? ikaw lang nakagawa ng ganun sa kanya..kahit na sikat ka na or mas sikat ka..hnd dapat ganun.. hindi about kasikatan ang pinag-uusapan dito eh.. Ok na sana siguro kung nag-apologize ka sana ng maayos. For me kasi kung sincere ka mag-apoligize dapat hnd text..pero kung text lang talaga magagawa mo.. aus-ausin naman..parang half-hearted kasi dating ng text mo eh.. anyway good luck na lang sa’yo.. kahit na laos na yan si kuya jobert tandaan mo 30 years na yan sa industry.. sikat ka nga ngayon pero maraming sikat na hindi tumatagal ng 30 years sa industy..know your place sana..baka in the next ten years mawala ka na lang hindi napapansin ng mga fans mo na hindi mo na fans after 10 years.. Anyway do a proper apology and make it professional. Good Luck.
naku naman. pwede naman kasing direktang tanungin kung may prod or wala sila ni kim chiu. bat kasi kailangan pang ganun ang tanong. e syempre may ibang meaning din yun diba. napakatagal mo na nga sa industriya pero simpleng tanong hindi mo pa maitanong ng tama.
isipin nyo naman kasi kung bakit nairita si xian. awkward naman talaga yung tanong na “magsasama ba kayo ni kim ngayong gabi?”. dapat kung talagang matagal na sya sa industriya alam nya kung paano irerephrase ng maayos ang mga tanong nya. kahit sino maooffend sa tanong na yun na hindi talaga tamang pakinggan. si jobert ang mali dito, hindi si xian.
First and foremost, you have to understand that Xiam Lim grow up in States…The culture are so different compared sa atin sa Pinas!!! I married an American and learned if you wanna ask them any questions you have to be very “SPECIFIC” they get so frustrated if you don’t specify things at all..Secondly,American need some time to chill out or quite time kasi na stress talaga sila if they are surrounded by people most of the time…Some Filipino doesn’t seem to understand this situation kay we love to be around our friends and family to recharge our energy!!! To some people they need to recharge their energy by being alone and have some personal time just for themselves…We might view Xian Lim as rude for answering that question but to him that’s nothing kasi ganun naman talaga ang mga American straight forward and if they offended you..They are so quick to ask forgiveness and move on..hindi na nila inuolit ang nagawa mo…So for Xian Lim nagkakamali din siya but He said sorry which is the good part and I don’t understand how someone like Jobert to go this far by calling him gay which is a “LIBEL” to Xian character and reputation…The best way for Jobert to do is talk to Xian’s manager right away about the incidence and give them a chance to do what is right and if they didn’t do any acton..Then go ahead and put this on the news..WE should be mature enough to handle this kind of situation and not let our prie and emtion rule over our judgement..Peace everyone!!Prayers for reconciliation.